Mine asked me recently about refinancing our mortgage. She looked shocked when I responded, "Why would I do that when you just filed for divorce?"
I told her earlier in her mlc to grab both her knees and pull her head out of her past. She obviously hasn't been able to do that.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13