Originally Posted By: sandi2

Anyway, I felt better after my H talked to me about it. Like I told him yesterday, I just needed him to talk to me about what his plans were.....and as usual, he looked at me dumbfounded. But, when he finished discussing it, then I did feel a lot better.




That, in itself, sounds like a really positive thing between you two. it's really good to hear it.

Maybe the first time you talked about it, he was kinda in shock, and he went into "wall" mode, as kinda a defense. 'cause he really didnt have any idea what to do.
But now, he's had a bit more time to think about it. so HE's not in panic mode, which makes him easier to talk to about it.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle