Soooooo...that is my sich in a nutshell. Some people say he does love and want to be with me, but there is something inside him that is so dysfunctional and twisted that he won't allow it. He hasn't been honest with anyone (not even OW) since day one. In fact, people would tell her when we were separated that he and I were together and she thought I was making it up and lying. She still to this day thinks he hung the moon. Sickning woman.
Wow - She must be a real waste of humanity if she is still sticking around after all of that. Is the best she can do a guy who divorces his W then gets her pregnant? I can't say any of that makes sense - She's obviously nuts.
Sounds like he needs to be told he either needs to commit to you and your baby, or you're doing it on your own (not that you're not doing it alone right now anyway). Nothing particularly positive seems to occur with your interactions with your H... He's just stuck between you and OW and can't make a decision. It has to be great for his ego when someone is basically drooling over him, but it's still just a bunch of crap without any substance...
