but in a nutshell, H walked out one day in a huff. We never really had closure at all. He would still come around about every week or two at most, we would spend a few days together and he would disappear and like clockwork I would recieve a text saying how he isn't ready to R or whatever and I would be left devastated until the next time. During those moments he would say ILY, Im sorry and talk about the future but then go back to reality. He said he made a mistake divorcing me but he was so far into it he didn't know what to do. He made such a stink when he left trying to justify his actions to family and friends. I actually did try dating someone at one point and it was a disaster as H found out (small town) and began pursuing me like crazy and promising the moon and then when I ended that relationship he bailed again. We did this back and forth thing for a few months after our D was final. I became pregnant in June and H thought it was some sort of sign that we were supposed to be together and vowed to work on us. I believed him for awhile until I started finding texts from OW...OW who he dated/friendship the entire time we were separated. She had no idea he was still seeing me the entire time as well, so when he had to tell her he got his exwife pregnant I am sure he had to eat alot of crow. You would have thought a reasonable woman would have run hard and fast if a guy said he got his exwife pregnant,but it almost made her cling harder to him.
Soooooo...that is my sich in a nutshell. Some people say he does love and want to be with me, but there is something inside him that is so dysfunctional and twisted that he won't allow it. He hasn't been honest with anyone (not even OW) since day one. In fact, people would tell her when we were separated that he and I were together and she thought I was making it up and lying. She still to this day thinks he hung the moon. Sickning woman.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
