Its so frustrating and irritating. Part of me wants to believe him so bad, but his actions say different. He chose to still have contact at least on the phone if not PA with OW and lied about it. How do you say you love someone and do that?
Guilt, I guess - Maybe he thinks his activities with OW are 'okay' if he is still affectionate towards you.
I'm curious. Did your dynamic and relationship with your H change much after you divorced? Obviously something happened afterwards (duh ), but I wasn't sure how long he had been drifting back and forth with you.
), but I wasn't sure how long he had been drifting back and forth with you.