Originally Posted By: JennyF
Enjoy your vacation Lizzy. All I can say is Thank God for the kids! They are what Christmas is all about anyway...I would hate to think where I'd be right now if not for them.
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My H has let up about it being over as I have eased up on the pushing. H still isn't willing to work on the R, but at least he isn't asking for a big D.

My H still feels the need to shove this down my throat no matter what. Sometimes he's so adamant about it that I think HE is the one he's trying to convince. I wish I could get inside his head!

Hope you have a great weekend away!
J~


Jenny,
I think you hit the bullseye when you said H is trying to convince himself. I think that is what my H is trying to do also whenever he says there is no hope.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1