Hope you have a great Christmas and that you see a few more positives. Just remember this cycling she is doing is to be expected. I think the fact that she's doing it is a good sign....my H is still stuck in "itsoveritsoveritsoveritsover" mode.
Anyway, HAPPY HOLIDAYS! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out