It means a lot to me that you would stop by my thread to offer up a hug. I need it today, but I think you need one a lot more. I have followed your stitch as well, (not from the very beginning), but don't think I ever posted but maybe once to IC. It breaks my heart that things have taken the turn that they have. I can't begin to know how hard it would be to find forgiveness, but somehow you two seem to be very special people...not just as a couple, but as individuals. And, like the old saying goes, time can heal a lot. More importantly, Love is able to overcome an awful lot of bad things. I think your H has about as good of timing as me and my H do. That can really stink!
Sweetheart, I believe that you can heal from this b/c in spite of IC's stupid conduct, he sounds like he is crazy about you and I think you love him, but it's hard to feel the love from all the pain you are in right now. It's just a shame that men think with the wrong "head".
Anytime you need to vent or just talk, I'm here. My prayers are with you too, honey.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
