Man, I'm so sorry about you seeing the bracelet. That pisses me off. Why leave it out like that? That's such BS. I know my H gave OW something for Christmas too. I'd bet he's spent more time picking out things for her and concentrating on her than he has his own D. Now that makes me mad.
I know what you mean about the odd calm though. I don't think that calm will last long around here after Christmas though.
I hope you have a good Christmas despite all the sh*t. Remember, I gave you my number. Call me if you need.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day