People can condemn IC for what he did...I know I have. I get the feeling from talking with him and from what I know of him, that nobody will condemn IC more than IC himself. His past actions have showed me that he cares and why I'm giving him another chance. His future actions will dictate my forgiveness. It's there IC, it's there for you to have if you show me what I think you can. Knowing you IC I do, the hardest person he'll ever get forgiveness from is himself and I'm hoping someday he'll find it in his heart to do so.
Not in the business of condemning anyone. Most of us screw up somehow, at some point. I know I have. Not in the same way as IC, but in the general screw-up-oh-meter race of life IC can grab a ticket and get in line. No, it's not easy, this making amends and forgiveness and improving yourself thing. Takes years. Is in fact probably never quite over. But ultimately so worth it. I'm hoping for the best for both of you.
