Mojo So you don't think it's weird that I hope that he's getting laid now that he's off being self-sufficient at 19?
Mo, I see rinse and repeat in that statement.
Sure, it is exciting for a 19 y.o. boy to have a fulfilling sex life, but look what happened to you.
As you know, I don't like to take risks. Having sex with someone you like and can live with for 50 years is one thing. Do you think your son is that capable and experienced, to pick a suitable life partner?
Teen age boys commonly make 3 big mistakes.
One, they party too much. You know what sort of thing that can lead to.
Two, they buy cars, trucks, and electronic stuff. some guys indebt themselves for 5 to 10 years.
Three, the GF gets knocked up. Sure he likes her but are they each ready to take on parenthood. Is the woman your 19 yr. old son wants for the next 40 years? Is he the man she wants for 40/60 years.
I am not saying no partying, no things, or no GF/sex but him just being on his own, why don’t you let this good sex thing take some time. I think it will do him lots of good to be on his own and unencumbered for 5 years.
I am not all party-pooper but know ship happens and don’t like to see people messing up their lives so early.
LFL to BF? But why would he listen to a little soft bunny like me...… Yea, right :eye roll: LFL a little soft bunny?????? Maybe some time!
No, LFL I see you as being able to mix it up with the best of them. I do think you have a soft bunny in there that needs it’s share of tending. I also see the more direct, honest, and female pirate that wants to mix it up and play hard.
You said OM was wolf and puppy (vigorous sex and cuddling too) That is how I see you, which seems normal to me.
