going feral means going wild or living like a wild animal.
Most folks on Norfolk are a bit that way anyways!!!!! And they are all pretty inbred, ( a bit like the royal family).
Pamar, when my dad was small he used to see Prince Charles being pushed round the grounds of Sandringham by his nanny. God forbid you ever got near one of the Royals now!!!!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
We have de-clawed the kids and they are now nearly acceptable in society!
Seeing a baby Prince Charles - scary.
Situation update, plodding along, out buying stuff to improve the house and Christmas shopping. Working on making this the best month for W at home (her work is crap at the mo), so she will see by my actions that life has changed.
Life is plodding on, no R talk, but plenty of work issues talk. W still not close, but there are hints that it is getting better (hope I'm reading the right signs).
W is seriously looking for a different job (OP works in same company), as it does not give her the flexibility to be with the children. They have really upset her over the past week and I have been there with a shoulder to cry on
First Christmas party this weekend, so that will be fun. The one next week is with her (supposedly) new work crowd, so it will be more tense for her, but I will make sure its a fun night.
I'll take a leaf out of Jarhead's manual (he's da man) and be happy, happy, happy.
Sounds like life is going well for you right now. I'm so happy for you.
Wow, your W wants to change jobs? I have those...Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda...moments from time to time. H got upset with his company in late May and I told him that I thought he should stay where he's at just for a little longer. OW works for the same Co. Things started betwee them not long after he decided to stay! I know the unhappiness and his struggles would still be there and who knows, maybe the A would have just been with someone else anyway. I try not to beat myself up over it.
Back to you. Have a super time at the Christmas parties. Be that Happy, Happy guy we all know you are. You're a WONDERFUL person Paul. Even from ALL THE WAY over here we can see that!!
Have a great day/evening....What time is it there??
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
OK, bit of a while since the last update, so here goes. Party was OK, but both of us weren't really in the mood. Nearly didn't get there as W looked soooo hot...and I told her so.
But we wen't and it was an enjoyable night. W got lots of compliments from my friends (mainly girls) and we had fun. Tired when we returned, so to bed and sleep Next morning though, some early intimacy (twice ) then up to collect the children. Went from there to pick up a new cooker and the Christmas tree, then back home. W feeling rough, so quite day, but looked after her.
Searching the net for D3 and S7 presents together (Nintendo DS), but all out of stock. W using computer again, but not accessing her emails, so Sunday's error (of sorts). I noticed some emails coming through for things that W was buying me for Christmas (yay), so I called her to check them; also an email from husband, so W got upset and thought ??????
I explained the DB site and sat down with her and explained how I had used it as support; she asked where her support was. Long convo, not terrible, but not at the best time; didn't feel it was right to show her this site; maybe it is? I cooked dinner which she thanked me for.
Back on track now, W working very late tonight, but phoned to chat earlier and moan about work. Said I would phone so children could say goodnight.
Will be nice and upbeat when she returns after her
OK, haven't posted for a while and there's a good reason. I f#$%�"$ up. I know you will all laugh that Pamar, after dishing out the advice, peeked, but I did.
Had a great weekend, with a night out on Saturday. Lazy morning in bed beginning to get intimate, when I went to make a cup of tea - checked her phone - message from OP (his name).
I didn't go as far as to read it, but I did take the phone upstairs and threw it on the bed. Loooong conversation after that; still EA going on (apparently he finished it at one point) and she still wants to be happy.) I didn't want to know any more and we discussed various things on and off during the day.
The following day I apologised for invading her privacy and stated that I would not do that again. She also apologised and stated that she should respect me more. So, just before Christmas it seems that we are back to square one.
Maybe I was wrong in reading the signs, new carpets, new kitchen appliances. I really don't know where to go from here - we are both being friendly, sleeping together and intimate, but I seem to be waiting for the big goodbye.
I touch her, cuddle her in bed and give her compliments; and will continue to do so. She stated that the only reason she hasn't gone (or even seen him since May) is the children, so I am counting them as a blessing.
Maybe I should cut loose (I certainly don't want to) or again, just bide my time and continue to ignore (she does keep it well away from me and our house).
All support and advice would be gratefully received. I have been in this situation for 9 months now and I would love to know how long to take this for; patience, patience, patience.
At the moment, my w cannot see past January, so it is building a pressure in me, that is maybe why I peeked - no more of that, it seems that I was the only one that suffered.
Christmas Eve and W is working till 6.30 p.m. Going to tidy, iron and make the house welcoming for her return. Both of us have colds, but W seems to be happier. I have had several opportunities to peak, but I'm holding firm.
Cuddled this morning (not week for intimacy) and helped get ready for work (lots of presents). W has phoned me twice today already, so I feel really honoured.
Next morning though, some early intimacy (twice 
) then up to collect the children. Went from there to pick up a new cooker and the Christmas tree, then back home. W feeling rough, so quite day, but looked after her.