Well, one thing I learned along the way is to never read too much into anything they do. My ex was most emotional ALWAYS at the holidays. I think this has something to do with it. If she REALLY didn't want this happening -she'd put an end to it.
My ex always told me he would love me forever. Even when he was living with maggot. Wonder if its true? Don't know, don't care.
I think it is best for the children to be with both parents and enjoy as much non confrontational time as possible during the holidays. I think you have done very well. Don't worry about being taken advantage of - you appear to be doing what your heart says is right.
