[/quote]Was he waiting though, or did he just get on with his life and they just happened to both be in a position to start over when she changed her mind? I can't imagine most people would wait for 4 years for someone else - That's really pushing it.[quote]
It took him 3 years to stop asking her where she was and stop feeling bad for himself. Once he spent a year finding himself she took notice and started to love him again. I have heard a lot of people do this, especially with kids. The important thing is he made sure they solved their issues in counseling before they became to serious. Now they seem really happy.
For my own help I think that same way. I can be happy now because if things don't work out now they might in a few years when we are both a little older. Thanks to the kids you will always see this person again, and that means that that person can never forget about you.
M: 30 W: 29 D: 4 S: 2 M: 7 years Dropped bomb: 11/26/07 My sitch
