Congratulations, Alleleuia! This is no small victory my friend, this is huge. There is something very special about you, and very special about your W to have changed the course of destruction in such a short time period. Yes you still have much work to do, but relish in the victory while you can, and be ever vigilant of evil, temptation, etc. I'm praying a prayer of thanks as we speak. You don't know the hardship you and your kids could have endured. Bravo! my brother, well done!!!
You made some very right decisions, controlled YOUR actions, YOUR behaivior, YOUR words. You allowed your W to be who she wanted to be, feel how she wanted to feel, and do what she wanted to do. That was one of the scariest steps you've taken, but that unconditional love 1C13, will take your M to the pinnacle. Keep up the good work.
Stay off the liquid spirits and bring in the Holy Spirit. I think your W is most impressed that you recognize your failings, and are willing to take the steps necessary to change. You are a good MAN, one whom I admire very much. What a gift you have been given, and what a gift we have recieved.
God Bless the Struggle! Merry Christmas!
COG
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