Thank you for your kind words. It is important for me to remain a strong man here, that is all I have left. I know that I have messed up on the job front and should have done something earlier but in my defence, I took this sitch badly and could not function.
WAW jumped ship and think she did because she tought/thinks OM can provide. She has still got money issues and has claimed food stamps, Temporary Assistance For Needy Families and has to work. However, she picked an OM who was divorced, had adult children, a home with only him in it and a business that she worked in. This was a coincidence was n't it? He had what she needed to leave.
She is not independent enough to do this on her own, live by herself or herself and the children.