Hmm...the exercise was meant to show that BF's signaling was in alignment with his current stated relationship goal which is "getting laid." As far as what I am looking for currently, the important detail is that I put a leather jacket on the guy. If he was wearing a Mr. Rogers cardigan it would all vibe different. I can't do cardigan/puppy. Given the leather jacket, I would choose #2 BUT I would be totally f8cking annoyed if the guy acted like the puppy should be making me hot rather than the leather jacket because I know that nobody's getting a hard-on from my apple pies.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
