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Hmmm...maybe because you are not being honest with yourself. ...You seem to like control.


Yeah... I can see how you'd think that...

But I really do not seek to control others... I don't like it when people do it to me. Manipulated.

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Or maybe it's in the way you seek this "honesty" that makes people feel like you are controlling?


I think it is probably my reactions to being manipulated... I guess it is because the guys I've been with know... I have no problem being on my own, and I WILL walk away.

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Or maybe you give off vibes that they can't be honest with you because you will give them the smack down. I dunno...


I think it's because I'm very clear on that boundary... it's even a three-strike rule... and I think women with firm boundaries stun most men.