And I guess I should clarify my 'seeking honesty' claim.
I'm actually looking for someone who can BE honest... and wants the same from me... so for example, if the guy were to say to me... 'I sleep around and I don't always use a rubber...' then I can say... 'oh, thanks for telling me...' and I can then decide to only have sex with the man if he wears a rubber, or I figure it is best to just be friends with him. OR... I have sex with him anyways... but then do not get mad at him or hold him responsible for any STD I might pick up.
