Good show Mojo. Good to see some moms comfortable/unfazed with/by their sons' sexual exploration.
So you don't think it's weird that I hope that he's getting laid now that he's off being self-sufficient at 19?
I don't. My oldest son has always been the smartest kid in class. While he likes and was good at sports, in most other ways he was the typical nerdy kid who was somewhat shy and lacking in confidence socially. His first girlfriend was at 20. It is wonderful seeing what this sweet girl has done for his sense of confidence. While I am a little concerned that she is 26 and he is just 21, she is a truly sweet girl and they seem great together. I do worry that he will end up with her without experiencing going out with anyone else, but I really like her. It would be hypocritical to be on a board dedicated to trying to have a fulfilling sex life and not want the same for my children.
I will admit this attitude is tougher to maintain with my 20 y/o daughter who is living with her bf, but I (at least intellectually) can recognize that this difficulty is rooted in societal mores. I want my children to have fulfilling sex lives. My wife is so uptight about this. If I start to kiss her more than just a goodbye peck she objects with "What if the children come in?" My response is that they have heard us fight. They have felt the instability. It would probably do them good to see their parents showing loving gestures to each other.
So Mojo, that is my very long-winded way of saying "No, it isn't wierd of you. It is being intellectually honest".
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
