That makes it sound like I'm looking for somebody who is perfect. I'm not. I'm looking for honesty... and I'll be damed wondering why that is so flipping hard to find.
Hmmm...maybe because you are not being honest with yourself. Honesty sounds good and all, but I still think you are wound a little tight (and I mean that in the nicest way possible) You seem to like control. If my perception is wrong, I apologize. That's just what I see. Or maybe it's in the way you seek this "honesty" that makes people feel like you are controlling? Or maybe you give off vibes that they can't be honest with you because you will give them the smack down. I dunno...
Clearly I have too much time on my hands this morning...Christmas Eve and everything. H actually had to work today so the Christmas blitz of way too many houses, food, and bottles of wine doesn't start til later.