Wow, Miss IC, I have to give you credit for getting to this place so quickly. You are a stronger woman than me for sure.
Just don't be surprised if you struggle now and then to stay the course. It is so hard. Those old resentments have a way of creeping back in. Just be aware of them. And of course, IC's response to you will be critical. Hope he is man enough for the challenge.
Have a nice holidays.

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