I haven't posted on your thread for a while, but have followed the thread and I think that your W is seriously going off the rails. I know it will be extremely hard, but for the sake of your Ds I suggest speaking to your Lawyer and seeing if MIL will assist. Explain to MIL that you are starting to feel real concern for their welfare (I can see you are).
This might prove the wake-up call that your W desperately needs; cheating on OM!?!?!?!? From the sounds of it, the MIL is now coming over to your side and is also worried about the Ds.
I know its not the best time of year for all this, but hang in there, you have the respect and friendship of all the community.
