I’m with you mrarow...we have similar sitches....I find being just friends so hard...detach with love is the hard part...the more I do it the more SLOW progress i see........try not to create worst case scenarios in your head about where WAW is & who she is with...its hurtful behavior...thought stopping is a great tool. .practice it...I find constant thought correction is needed...when we think of all we have & not what we don’t have we can find peace...this is not our normal way of doing things & that’s why we have to practice it.....wish I could be more helpful...all the best to you
why im here http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1247860&page=1#Post1247860 me 47 w 44 m 20 s 18 s 14 s 8 bomb dropped 10/8/07