DaveJ, there is no sense in any of it.
Maybe you are pressing too much by asking all of these questions?

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So I said, if you are going to go through that extent in keeping us together, don't you think maybe making us work would be worth it?

This is my own perspective, for what it is worth: maybe you should just make the observation instead of adding the suggestion? Like,

Gee, that seems like a lot of effort to keep the family together; I appreciate that.

(without saying "Maybe working on US would be worth it?")

This feels like it would be less pressure on her, to me. But what do I know?


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Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....