I gave her a hug and told her I missed her while she was gone. She said she would miss me if she came home to positive comments. I told her these are all reality.
Sounds like she was halfway towards missing you and you ended up making her return home unpleasant for her.
EA or no EA, this isn't the way to interact with your W - Behaving as if you are bitter and jealous, even if you are, is not at all appealing to anyone.
