Wow atlas your story has given me a lot to digest. My W has father issues big time. He would take her to the bar when she was 5 and have her run around while he got drunk. In the 8 years I have known my W, she has never talked to him at all.
My W step dad filled in for her, but W even told me that he would watch her take showers. W doesn't talk about that, but I wonder if I am ready to handle the issues that are caused from all of that or not.

Thanks for being so insightful.


M: 30
W: 29
D: 4
S: 2
M: 7 years
Dropped bomb: 11/26/07
My sitch