I'm a newbie-H is MLC-Lovely!!!

[MrsLBW]

Well, I talked to one girlfriend who said "I'd confront him or at the very least let him go and have him followed so you have something for the lawyer when you need it". Then I called my sister who suggested a different approach.
She said if you just want to mess with him and try to ruin his night with her then don't call him. But he told you that he would take the kids while you are working since he was on vacation so tell him that they are his responsibility for that day-whether HE has to get a babysitter or whatever. They are his kids too and you had already planned on him taking them.

So...I calmly called him-he was pleasant and funny on the phone. We were teasing each other about how we haven't finished our Christmas wrapping yet and other things. Then I said that I got his message and we have a problem-I planned on him taking the kids-what are you doing on Sunday that you can't take the kids. "I've just got other plans thats all" I couldn't resist and I said "Oh, I get it" He said"No you don't" I said,"yeah I do-but whatever. If you're not going out of town,can you be here before I go to work on Monday morning?" (said as sweetly as possible) and he said, "sure, I can do that." And then I asked to speak to the kids and afterward, they said he wanted to speak with me again. Funny chit-chat and then,"I keep forgetting to tell you that I think we need to look into a different car insurance carrier because the one we have now is really expensive."

He's going out on "dates" and still planning on our joint insurance company. This MLC crap is too much to figure out!!