She has not filed for D yet but says she is in January. However, she is not overjoyed about doing it. I have asked if she wants a divorce and all shes says is "nobody wants a divorce". She also says that she does not want to talk about it if I bring it up (I know that I should n't bring it up).
If she files, she files - Doesn't sound like she will though. Most people don't avoid filing for divorce because of the convenience.... If you want out, you want out, and you just do it.
Sounds like you're going to have to continue on your holding pattern until OM crashes and burns.
