Need advice on prognosis of R - opinions?

[theotherhalf]

I am afraid to mess up the potential of reconciling, but if he's already made up his mind and has committed to her, then I'm wasting my time. Why would he be stringing me along? Is there a reason anyone can think of other than he's confused? Is there a selfish reason he could be stringing me along that isn't hopeful for me at all? Does it sound like he's serious about her? This is like the most hideous game of chess.
Help!!! Need advice!!!

We all ask ourselves and the good people on the boards these questions. over and over and over again.

Truth is...there are no answers out there. No one knows what will be, not even your H. You just have to follow YOUR heart and do what is best for you and your children. They are lost, we pray they find their way. We pray they will return. But NO ONE can see into the future and what will be will be.

God bless you and be with you Jen.
Bottom line is TAKE CARE OF YOU and the rest will take care of itself.

TOH