I guess I don't necessarily see the Lioness as the great protector... though it certainly can involve protection. I see the Lioness as being the one who just 'gets it done.' No matter what the 'get it done' may involve.
Okay, I thing I get what you're saying here and I agree. BF said something about dating "with intent" and "getting something done" implies intent. I agree with what you said to BF about how everybody has an intent when they date. However, I think that my intent is different than your intent and also different from BF's intent. You want more security and commitment than me ( a boyfriend) and BF wants less romance and affection than me (a f*ckbuddy). What I want primarily, but not exclusively, is a lover and the task of finding a lover involves leaving yourself open to possibilities. So what if I fall a little bit in love and a little bit more in lust with men who I can't count on to take out the trash for me 5 years from now? They fall a little bit in love and lust with me too and it's oh so very whatever-word-means-sweet-and-hot-at-the-same-time while it lasts.
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So you get her in shape for the next time you head back out into the jungle... your instinct guides you. All your senses are more honed... and when that happens, the BUNKY can play til her heart's content... even after the street lights come on, without fear for her safety... or the lure of men with candy and warm cars.
I do need to get my lioness in shape but I want to be lured by men with candy and warm cars 'cause then we can get all sticky and hot together.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver