I had my mind opened the other night while helping my son study for his philosphy test. Buddhism. Something I knew nothing about. But a philophy that really speaks to the pain we experience in our relationships. Find a book on Buddhism and read up on it. I bet you will see what I'm saying. Basically, the philosophy says that we experience pain in our lives because we have uncontrolled desires. The 8-fold path to enlightenment teaches you to control your desires, reducing the pain in your life. What a great idea!