Thanks for the message and it is the good choice. I'm usually the one that wants the ball in my court, and in a way it is, I made my choice. But in reality, I left the door open and all she has to do is walk through it. I'm not going to watch it, but I have to say this is the hardest decision I have ever made. I truly love her, but she won't fix herself until nothing is left and she may never fix herself.
I honestly feel this is the best thing I can do for her. By doing what we were doing it wasn't helping either of us, but it especially isn't helping her. Her older sister went through the same thing a few years ago, and is still a total wreck, dating a guy who is a mirror image of the former bad guy, only instead of a suit, he's a cowboy. Everyone sees it but her. So it makes me think W will never get it together. I don't want to be a part of that.
It's hard to use your head when it's matters of the heart, but sometimes you just have to. It's about laughs and cries, and now it is more about cries then laughs, so it's time.
