So, the W has decreed that she would do everything possible to keep the kids in state and near me. And if she marries someone he has to be ok with not moving out of state. And if he has to, they would have to do it LD until he can figure out a way back. I wonder how many men would go for that. W says the kids and this family is important to her. So I said, if you are going to go through that extent in keeping us together, don't you think maybe making us work would be worth it? If the family is that important to you, maybe keeping it together would be something you should think about? I told her that once she let go of her anger/resentment, maybe she should seriously think about us. She said maybe.... So this is how logical a WAS is.... If she is going to that extent to want to keep us together, isn't it more logical to work on us and make that work? I give up trying to make any more sense of this.....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
