ARTICLE: Sudden Divorce Syndrome for Men

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One thing is strange to me in this country is the disparity of financial judgments.

My situation fit the classic....the girls and I were down 75% and he was up 42%, but he "feels" poor and won't buy them gifts until his dad gives him the money (and he's 54 yrs old!). We actually lived below the poverty level for 5 years and b arely over for the next 2 years. Now I make more than he does, b ut I still pay the major support for all of us. I 'feel' richer and always have. He 'feels' the rage and anger still...after 13 years post divorce.

And yet I read about guys like those in the article who truly get screwed. I work with women who get huge child support payments, and they live really well -- like their c hild support is almost another full time income.

Something isn't right for sure.

One size definitely doesn't fit all.