In the big picture, and maybe we're saying the same thing...I think you're right. And Dom is the best. I just think he's missing some of the things she's trying to communicate...because I think she would come back to him if she felt the things she feels is missing.
Dom is amazing.
And so are you. You guys have a little different situations.
sofar....your advice on the board IS very good. So many folks get pretty beaten down.
I admire you guys who are really good parents. My ex completely walked away from his kids. Never visited them...moved 300 miles away while fighting me for custody. Doesn't call. Called my oldest when she was in the hospital a few years ago.
In his defense...he DID let her live with him last year when I had cancer and she was acting up (she's 20 now). She moved back here in June.
He's very odd (I'm perfect), and it is probably for the best. He was great with them when they were babies...better than me because he had experience (from a big family).
I admire guys who are great dads.....the kids need you so much.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001