SG, maybe I didnt explain it well. What I meant by that was you do not change your morals or values simply to suit the R. This is detrimental to your own well being. Behavioral changes occur only if we truly believe that the behavior is something we want to change within ourselves. Men have to believe in what they are changing or later on down the road it will cause us to feel like we changed ourselves only for her and will cause resentment and damage the R. I also think Dom has already made several behavioral changes already.
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Sorry no.
Your relationship goals need to be from HER point of view.
I sort of agree, sort of disagree. I have faith that peoples relationship goals are about finding themselves and who they are. our spouses fell for us based on who we are and sometimes we lose sight of that. I believe that our goals are generally the same as theirs if we are honest with ourselves.
