Input, WH and I own business together

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Grid, Yes I still wear my wedding ring, sometimes I wear it on my right hand. Middle and baby fingers on left hand are numb almost all the time since surgery, sometimes they're more numb than others. Doc says it's normal, will go away 3 to 6 mos after surgery. W has noticed but hasn't said anything.

Sorry to hear about your cat, although it's good to know it's not being euthanized, still it's like losing a family member even if H took him. Why didn't H pay vet bill since he took cat? When H left vet parking lot maybe he didn't know what to do, he could have thought giving you a hug would be leading you on? I know I would probably read more into a hug initiated by W than what she meant by it.

I don't know if S26 is going to his aunts house, W still hasn't talked to him in over 2 months. I don't know if I should stay home and have him and his family over or go to SIL house. If I stay at home and have him over I'm sure W will think I made him come over, and I'm making him hate her, she doesn't see how she is treating him. The last time she talked to him was to get her oil changed He is an auto mechanic for a Chevy dealership, he changes her oil for free.

I don't know why W has kept her job with screwed up hours either. I never told her to quit, thought that would be too controlling. But in our area $10/hr jobs are a dime a dozen. I think one reason might be she may have been seeing a married co-worker. Easier to see someone on the side if you get weekdays off to spend together when your spouses are working. She got upset twice and said she was going to quit, I encouraged her to do so. I think both times she had a spat with who she was seeing and wanted to quit because it was awkward to work around someone that you were seeing. The last time she was going to quit was when we went on vaca together end of Aug. she was going to give 2 weeks notice upon our return. I suspect OM was upset she was going out of town for 9 days with me and they had a fight. 2 days before we were coming back, she got a voice mail or text and went cold as ice. She was supposed to move back home after vaca but decided to stay S when we returned home.

My pizza,LOL. I make my own sauce and crust. My sauce is indeed spicy, I put garlic, fennel seed, oregano, anise, and crushed tomatoes together and boil it down into a sauce. Make my own sausage also. When kids were in high school, their friends would ask them if dad was making pizza this weekend. D25's friends all called W & I mom and dad.

If I go SIL house, I will remain in a upbeat and positive mood. I feel bad for S26, I don't know what to tell him.

Mike