I have asked him to go. Many times. He won't leave until the house is 'settled' ("If I have to pay on this house, I am staying")
I am all to familiar with this... H filed and we're still living together. At times it is absolutely horrible and at others it's bearable. Good for you for going out when he gets home. That's my biggest challenge... I need to start living my life for me and that's what you are doing. As everyone tells me, you can't control him - you can only control you..
