Your relationship goals need to be from HER point of view.
You DO need to do things for yourself....take care of yourself.
So many DB ers think the main goal is to get a life of their own. And so many DBers do need to do that. Everyone needs to take care of themself.
"You cannot change yourself into something that you are not in this process. "
But this is where a lot of GUYS fail. They refuse to change because they think behavioral changes are changes of their core and it isn't true. It's just seeing the situation differently.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
