Trouble is, if I make a mistake, she jumps on it with, "see, you havent changed! you're just like you always were! that's why i could never go back to being with you!".
Doesnt seem to matter to her what my intent is, or whether I'm willing to make up for it.

gotta make the changes that are important to her...not just what you think they are or should be






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So what's it gonna be? What Christmas gift are you going to give yourself?

Pfft. I'm not thinking of myself much these days. Spending virtually all my money and effort on my family. I guess the closest to a gift for *me*, would be my spending $20 on a set of mail order anime videos...and I did that primarily because my sons wanted to see the rest of the set.

I meant with respect to DB ing... \:D but this is good, too.





Thank you for helping everyone you help on the board. Your advice is ON TARGET for THEM. You will be successful. You only need tweaking, not a do-over. I believe in you.

sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001