Relational Equality vs, Relational Equivalency

[Stigmata]

Crud, LFL. Can't be too regular round here. Gossip is for you chickie-babies and my gay brethren.

Of course, it defeats the purpose when you ask me how I am. Means I have to respond, which I will, since I was raised to always be courteous to others -- though mother would probably raise an eyebrow to me responding to an F with "Lust" in her handle. (No, ma, I'm not into some pervy porn site. I know people who do burn in Hell for eternity.)(eye roll)

I'm glad you're sticking in there with H. I don't believe it would have been better if he WA for an OW. I think not having sex with you and having it with an OW would have been the ultimate insult and the dealbreaker for you. No way in Hades you'd get past that, from what I've seen from your swings.

I also believe OP don't walk away without a plausible reason. Something in him snapped from some kind of pressure he brought upon himself with respect to your R. I think imagining life w/o you and the kids as a family unit was a wake-up call he needed to step outside his own head and want to work on rebuilding your R -- this time by including his life partner, the big dummy.

Your OM would be an ego blow to any man. We all like to think our Fs would remain celibate esp. since we had no OW driving our actions. Not saying it's fair; just the way of the male ego/sense of possessiveness.

But that's a discussion for your thread and would mean I would have to post more. Egads.

Corri said:

Have you not been paying proper attention, or are you just trying throw BF a tad bit of support?

Both. I know what's going on and I stand by my HS comments. It is pure hubris to think one should have seen it all coming without admitting to a sizeable role in the outcome.

Simply: OP do not cheat because they are happy/content with you and the R.

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I hate to admit this in my own sitch. At the same time, I am too biased therefore ID with a lot of his other comments as I feel my own bitterness arise and I probably will subsequently proffer comments that will come across as anti-female as well; as a matter of fact, count on it.

I could play devil's advocate for both sides if I so choose. I'm very capable that way.

But, as we like to say: Bros before Hos.
)I'm j/k Cheyenne. My head would look out of place mounted next to your elk and bear)

Hm, hate to think I'd have to resort to one of those namby-pamby "time out" PC punishments on you Fs.

My goodness... you really ARE off your game. {Nose wiggle at the thought}

Excellent. That's what I was going for: nose-wrinkling distaste. That's why it's called punishment. I can't have any of you Fs actually enjoying this self-same punishment.

Actually for you, it may be better punishment to have you walk into your large closet only to discover in horror I have taken a circular saw to the toes of all your pointy shoes.

See what you've done? That's 2 double entendres in one day. I've reached my quota. No more. Beg all you want.

I never beg, deary. Not unless you want me to.

Okay, now that's 3.

Shame on you. Bear-baiting at The Globe went out with the rising popularity of a young lad named Bill Shakespeare. I've been hibernating so I may get cranky. Careful, girl. Even capable Cheyenne would have a handful.

-Stigmata-

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