I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[Dom R]

Sandi,
i care too. I'm a guy, so I usually show that, by looking for solutions

is the bank loan in both your names, or just his?
If it's in both your names, you could go to the bank and ask them for alternatives, or look at refinancing.

even if it isnt... you could still probably ask.
Do you own your house, and is there equity in it? if so, there's always the option of converting all that stuff into a home loan.