NoDirection, I know you will keep fighting the good fight for yourself and your son, and stay on your guard when it comes to her.
On that note, I'd like to talk about trust, to me, trust is something that one has to earn, and once it has been earned, then broken, it is very hard to get it back, especially with the one who broke it. I, myself, am learning to trust again, but I don't think I will ever be able to trust my W, again, on anything. My thinking is this, at this time, I don't want anything to do with her. I just want to live my life, my way. I was controlled so much during the M, so now that I have found my freedom/self, I will let that happen, again.
Life is crazy sometimes, as the Rolling Stone's put it"You Can't Always Get What You Want, but If You Try Sometimes, You Get What You Need" Never a truer statement, in my sitch. Take care.