Here is my other thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...&gonew=1#UNREAD

H picked me up at the airport alone,here is the conversation

H hi

E hi

Cheek kisses ( that set the mood right there, when i left it was lip kisses maybe because I had't called him?????)

H are you ever dark...you had good weather?( checking me out )

E yea in the 80"s

H did you have a good time?

E yes, yes I did

H I was going to, ask S to come but he was hung over

E yea I know how that feels... so am I (had a party last night before I left, met some realy nice people...cute too!I know , I know didn't do anything)

H Drink by yourself?( checking me out again)

E no

H drink with your dad?

E no had a party for me before I left (total 180 for me again, I do not drink and IF I do maybe 1 or 2 glasses of wine that's it)

H & E small talk while waiting for luggage

H did you spend all that money on you for christmas?

E yes, you bought me this outfit I will wrap the other stuff and put it under the tree

H nods

E Are we still "done"

H yes , what would make you think otherwise?

E Just asking.... so you're leaving after Christmas?

H yea

E I have some paper work from the lawyer I want you to sit with me to fill it out.

H nods

E you will have to continue to pay the bills until the money issue is settled

H nods

E I want you to remember that whatever happens you can talk to me

H no reaction???

H did you buy any booze?

E no

H do you want to get some at the border?

E no, not for me Pause

E oh yea I have to get some corona

H for who?

I looked at him like it "why?"
he waved his hand like "never mind"
I don't ask him questions about where, who, when
So I think(hope) he should be the same with me
It is for my girlfriends husband but...

Very quiet in the car for awhile...
H puts his hands up by his mouth, H does this when a lot on his mind, thinking. I turned up the radio

H why don't you get some blue?

E because it's not my money

H hands by mouth for the rest of the way home.....a very long quiet ride

oh by the way he carried my luggage, came in and told me the liscnce plate # to cross the border, carried out the ber and moves th car next to the building for me to get in.

Got home and he had made stuffed peppers and chicken for lunch.

He is finally starting to cook again. Something tha went by the wayside in MLC

I told him it was very good and that it was nice to see him enjoying his cooking again.

Gave him a hug and he one handed hugged back

Right now he is downstairs and I am up

Please critique my actions
give it to me straight on...please
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Last edited by enlightenlife; 12/23/07 09:05 PM.

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......