I read that somewhere too, Wii. I think the obsessing over not forgiving oneself, comes from a place of guilt. I have forgiven myself for my shortcomings in the M. I still have guilt over some of my parenting in the past. Oh well, I know I can't go back, but can only move forward, and try and do better. I think that's all anyone can do in any situation. \:\)

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim