IWB - your right it does not feel like xmas - my H filed and moved out right away and it does not look good. He lives with OW and knowing that is really hard - but you are such a strong woman to live with him. I remember before H moved out watching him come and go - it was so painful knowing he was with OW and a part of me was relieved he left because it was torture. I can only imagine how painful that was to see bracelet from OW for him at xmas. I think he wanted you to see it. Cruel. But I just think all you guys who are still living with spouse when involved in A are so strong - you are making the ultimate sacrifice to save your family.
