Hi Stigmata! Good to see BF's better half again, lol. But stop dropping in only once every six months or so. It's annoying. What's going on in your world?
BF Here's the thing. The guys can get the idea that women find you interesting (you are) but it's only interesting to the extent that they are trying to figure you out. If you don't let them figure you out, they'll eventually lose interest. I still think there are more sides to you. Ex. BF seems like a player, but he is posting on this BB. Dichotomy. That why I said don't pretend to be the beer women slam. I know, I know, that's just women's perception, right? BS! The reason women find you interesting/attractive is that you are so over the top. But that same interest flames out when all they see is arrogance and maybe some disrespect for women. I know you don't feel that way but why do so many women say they see that in you? Just something to think about. Also, the puppy side is what is going to make you attractive to someone long term. All wolf is just arrogance that will kill attraction in the end. You were certainly arrogant when you thought you didn't have to "tend your W's fence". more bs. All I'm saying is take it down a notch. Be confident. That is amazingly attractive. But don't be disconnected or invulnerable. Not attractive. You said men can't really go back and forth between wolf and puppy. I don't think that's true. I'll use my favorite case study as an example: Alpha Soldier Guy. He was all wolf while having sex. But minutes later, he would be bringing raw brownie batter (one of my favorites) into the bed so we could snuggle, watch a movie, spork, you get the idea. Granted he wasn't Mr Talkative. But he showed a softer side that made him totally hot, only because I knew he was already wolf. See what I mean? And he was never once arrogant or cocky. He didn't need to be. He was just confident. So take that and do what you will with it. I'm not holding out hope you will see any of the light here but I'm offering it up anyways.
