lwb - I know how you feel. W is still wearing the ring she received from other man.
I hope that things get better after the holidays.. whatever that is for you.
I can't believe he came home after you told him not too. I guess I was a little lucky there.. we don't have keys to our house (I know.. strange) so I would just lock her out.
Anyway.. sucks that you are going through this with Xmas just 2 days away.