There's tension in the LFL household today. H just stormed out to go get more xmas presents that we don't need. Don't know exactly what going on other than SSDD. And frankly, I don't care which is a bigger issue.
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I guess I'm thinking that it must be the case that he is turned-off at the thought of you being submissive for the same reason that you are turned off at the thought of him being submissive. He sees women as weak or squishy or something like that in the submissive role and finds that unappealing.
That about sums it up. We both want each other to be someone we are not. Great! Thank god I have a plate full of chocolate kiss peanut butter xmas cookies in front of me for comfort.
